A blog is a blog.... what's the use of a blog? maybe it's just something that helps us cope? maybe it's something that we just want to do in our spare time? something that needs to be said to the general public? something to share solely with frds? to announce to the people in ur circle that you are having issues? about a certain someone? to help us release our rage? maybe all of these? Recently, I've been reading some blogs.... it seems to me that we are all in a stressful state, whether it'll be issues with life's path or someone thats on your back and you just want to say to the world what a horrible person he/she is... dont be his/her frd... why so stressed and angry? some people nowadays are just full of crap, they annoy the heck out of you, use cheap tactics to make you look like a fool, causing you to have less friends because they expose a side of you that is not very welcoming to others... in this situation.. what do you do? do you: A. Just do the same thing and just have a public war
B. Just take it in... and then burst later on and project ur anger on somebody else?
C. Talk to someone else and ask them, "oh, sometimes i really hate that person, dont you find him annoying?"
D. Ignore it grow from it and move on
E. Something else Now, depending on ur personality, and as a person. You would have different approaches based on what makes YOU feel comfortable. It is at that time where you are really stressed or angry, that you need to gain control of yourself. Think about what's sensible or not. It's a hard skill to learn... but emotions always get the better of us... you burst, get angry at people around you, friends you have... they may see a side of you, that isnt very pleasant... but you've already done it... there's no going back... TRUE, it depends on the situation, how you should stand up for yourself... but please do it the correct way... not like the person has treated you... he/she is obviously has issues and needs to grow up... in the end we are only human, understand that our behaviours and thinking are driven by hormones, experiences and environment. Simply said, our own type of defense mechanism... I can admit that I too have had problems... i really just want to make a fool out of some rental agencies. but in the end didnt. coping strategies for the win! remember, a blog is a blog, you write whatever you want, your ideas, feelings and etc
you chose what you want to say, YOU are representing yourself (considering that you dont give out ur pw to ppl)... some people may like it, others may hate it... respect your blog, others want to see how you are going, read about what you have been up to, don't disappoint them with your constant drags, depression and anger... your friends want to see what exciting things you have been up to! that's all i got time to think about,
(electrician coming to my place tmr at 7:30 =.=") Over and out
Ernest | 
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